Staying Power – The Seven-Year Itch
Key Bible Verse: Patient endurance is what you need now, so you will continue to do God’s will. – Hebrews 10:36
The “seven-year itch” shows up on the job as well as in marriages. I decided I needed different work. All I had to do was tell my boss.
Ours had been a turbulent relationship. I was certain he would be glad to see me go. I was wrong.
Bob sat on his side of the desk, arms folded. I looked out the window, then, at him. “I’m leaving,” I announced. “I’ve done the best I can, but I need to move on. Here’s my letter of resignation.”
His eyes followed the envelope. Silence. “No you’re not,” he said.
“What did you say?”
“I said you’re not leaving. We need you. You’re an excellent employee. We can’t afford to lose you, Cliff.” It was a rare compliment.
“Bob, I’m telling you I’m leaving.”
“And I’m asking you to stay,” he said quietly. “Please?”
More silence. A songbird sang outside his window. My eyes filled with tears. “Then, I will,” I said softly.
“Thank you,” he answered. “Thank you.”
That was 27 years ago. I’m still here. By staying with my organization, I have matured, grown in faith, and learned what it means to serve.
—Clifford Denay Jr. in Michigan
My Response: I’ll consider if my inclination to quit might be a long-term solution to what is really a short-term problem.